cat happiness

Cat Toy with catnip from PetSmart

I’m astounded (and, truth be told, saddened) by the number of people who go to Google and enter the words “How to Be Happy.” It can be hard to phantom being so down that you have to LITERALLY search for ways to be happy.  Then again, I suppose some people who are “happy enough” search for ways to be even happier.

Who can blame them?

We all want to be as happy as we possibly can be but have you ever stopped to consider that the same can be said of our beloved cats? They want to experience as much happiness and contentment as possible.  Naturally all cats are different. Some enjoy sleeping more than playing, some enjoy playing more than sleeping… and some enjoy few things in life quite as much as they do a good meal.

However, regardless of which activities are their favorites, all cats have pretty much the same requirements for happiness:

  • Food
  • Fresh water
  • Clean, quite, private Litter Box or a safe yard
  • Several comfortable, special places to sleep – free from disturbances and drafts
  • Scratching posts
  • Plenty of playtime!

Cat toy  from PetSmartMost loving cat parents provide the best food possible, plenty of fresh water, a clean litter box, scratching opportunities, and great beds – and many even buy their cats plenty of great toys.  However what many of us fail to realize is just how important playtime is.  Not only does a cat love to play with their toys, they love for their humans to get involved.

Different cats prefer different types of toys.  Some cats love toys with crinkly cellophane inside of them, some love toys with bells, while others prefer that their toys look and feel like real prey.  Alexa has absolutely zero interest in the crinkly cellophane or bells.  She loves nothing more than playing ball, though.  Her favorite game involves someone rolling one of her toy balls to her as she bats it back.  She seems to especially love it when she bats it past one of us and we have to get it.

Sometimes it feels like she’s “playing fetch” with us…  and we’re her pets!

She also loves toys that mimic prey – Cat Toys with feathers, fur, or toys that look like bugs.   Like most cats, she loves any sort of playtime that involves her stalking or chasing something.

Sometimes a cat will even create their own “game.”  For example, at least once a day, when I go into the back of the house (to put something in the master bathroom or in our closet), Alexa will slink in and hide on the opposite side of our bed.  She crouches down and expects me to get on my hands and knees and sneak up on her.

When I get to the edge, she loves for me to put my arm and hand underneath the covers and move it along, making a scratching noise on the mattress.  She’ll stand up (ears pinned back in full attack mode), and wait for just the right time to pounce on my poor hand.  I learned pretty fast that she pounces with her SHARP claws out as far as they’ll possibly go, so I have to be fast.

That, or reach for the band-aids.

This routine goes on everyday, for about 10 minutes each time.  She has a ball, I have a ball, and she looks so stinking cute when she’s stalking my hand I can never keep from laughing (which, I’m sure draws the claws out even further).

Something else I’ve learned over the years with my cats is this: They love the unexpected!  If you cats, like ours, have a great number of cat toys and “play pretties,” rotate the collection Cat Toy from PetSmartoften.  Place different toys in different places – sometimes in places they won’t expect them to be.  Alexa has 4 different places in our house where that she “hangs out in” the most: When I’m working online during the day, she sleeps nearby – until lunchtime, of course. Nothing interferes with that girl’s lunch.

During the evening, she has a certain area in the living room, one in the family room, and one in the master bedroom.  I kind of rotate different toys amongst her favorite hangouts.

I’ve also found that cats, just like human kids, LOVE it when you come back from the store with something special for them.  I’ll often (okay, very often) pick up a little bag of treats, or a special cat toy, that I know she’ll adore.  Fortunately, we have a PetSmart in Owensboro, so I’ll never run out of great toys to bring home to her.  (By the way, here’s a tip that I think is pretty special.  If your cat has certain toys she or he isn’t interested in, bag them up, mark CAT TOYS and take them to Goodwill. How much would it mean for someone who might be a little down on their luck to also have the opportunity to take cat toys home to their precious cats?!)

Speaking of Pet Smart, within this post are a few new toys they have that Alexa speaks highly of.  You can always trust Pet Smart to have quality cat food, cat toys, and other cat items (as well as everything you’d need for other pets as well).  What’s more, they have the prices I’m always looking for. (Content continued after the cute cat video!)

Cat toys and playtime don’t just lead to happier cats, they lead to healthier cats as well – both physically and mentally.  But that’s not all (though it’s certainly enough!), playing with your cat is a perfect way for YOU to relax and unwind.  The benefits are amazing, and they definitely go both ways.

Need a toy box for you cat’s toys? Check out the Martha Stewart toy bin below (from PetSmart). Love it! Click the image for a closer look.

Please click the link to find more Cat Toys at PetSmart.com!

1. Like a genie in a bottle, you gotta rub her the right way. Namely, the spots she can’t reach herself. My cats look like the picture of ecstasy when their rubbed under the chin, around their cheeks and at the base of their tails.

If you get a soft-bristled brush, they’ll think they’ve gone to kitty Heaven.

2. An old box, for a cat, is a new adventure. My husband and youngest daughter got a wild hair a week ago and decided to upgrade our tv. They wanted a bigger one, and one that played dvds. Personally I think they just wanted to torture me – more remote controls and what’s its to figure out.

Anyway, I’m not sure who’s happier now – Steph, with her fashion channels, Michael , with the golf channel, me – with my cooking shows, or the cats with their new box castle. Ultimately, everyone’s smiling.

3. Get floored. Lay right down on the floor, or ground, with them. Prissy loves for me to lie down on the floor – she cozies right up next to me and, after a little head-scratching and a lot of purring, she’s out like a light.

4. String them along. Grab some string or a shoelace and watch the party kick into high gear. The cool thing about cats is that they know when to stop playing. Whereas dogs will literally play for hours, cats will, after awhile, decide that they’re above it all.

10 minutes into some great string maneuvering, she might think, “I’d look much cooler over there.” Then she’ll strut off and lie down, giving you a “Yeah, we’re through here.” look.

5. If you have to be away from her for a while, leave something behind with your smell on it. A shirt, a pillow, a robe – something that’s distinctly you. Prissy has always loved sleeping on our bed – and if my husband tosses a top or his pjs on the bed, it’s where she sleeps for hours.

6. Don’t jack up the volume on tvs or cd players. Their little ears are sensitive.

7. Remember that your cat’s favorite time in the world is dinner time – so don’t feed her with an attitude of “Ewww, this stinks…” or “Here’s another chore I have to do…” – let her hear the smile in your voice. She’ll think you’re the coolest of the cool.

8. Look at her, right in the eye, and talk to her. Cats LOVE to be the center of attention – it’s right where they were meant to be.

9. Be aware of the times that she comes to greet you – and never pass right by without acknowledging her. Imagine how you’d feel if you rushed to welcome a loved one home just to have them pass you by without a word!

10. As with any relationship, don’t take them for granted. We always get comfortable in our relationships – thinking “We had them yesterday, we have them today, we’ll have them tomorrow.” Only two of those can be written in ink – the third’s very much in pencil.

We should never take anything or anyone for granted – we should make those who mean the world to us KNOW that they mean the world to us.

I see Bo at the patio window – I think he’s wanting “mommy” to practice what she posts, so I’m outta here!

Joi